Just found this site today, and have really identified with a lot of your stories! I have twin 8 yo boys who were diagnosed AS at age 4 that I suspect are also ADHD/ODD. We're getting lots of bad behavior both at home and school despite an army of behavioral therapists and having tried a number of medications. The special challenge is that my difficult children are almost completely non-verbal, only requests for very preferred objects. Has anyone had exposure to a situation like that?