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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 49865" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Thanks, all. Hey, we have been in the Catholic and Lutheran Church, but to my son those aren't christian churches...lol. Unlike the kid who came home and broke the rules, Scott and difficult child wife NEVER break the rules. they don't even own a television, as it is evil. They don't believe in giving presents. My son used to be very generous with his younger siblings, but now they are lucky to get a computerized birthday card from him. He usually doesn't even acknowledge them. I got no acknowledgement for mothers day until three days later w hen I got a strange card from his wife only. It said "Celebrate" on the front and was blank inside (definitely not a Mothers Day Card). She wrote a short message thanking me for the wonderful man that my son is. If you knew her, you'd realize that was a nasty dig. She signed her name without "love" or including my son's name. What a Christian, huh? I'm wondering if the church tells the members only to date people of their own race. It wouldn't shock me if this cultish church was also racist. Scott was obviously raised in a multi-racial family, but, for a while, he would only date Chinese women. Asian wasn't enough. They had to be Chinese. I guess I'll step back. I really can't condone what he is doing and, although the door is always open, I don't know how I'd deal with them if he chose to see me. I often slip up and say "Oh, my God" and I watch movies and my daughter (his sister) is living with her boyfriend of four years, and I don't find it a lethal sin. We speak different languages. Extreme Christians make me feel they are judging everything I do...I don't understand them. I'm comfortable in regular, mainstream churches, not these extreme places. They weird me out. I admit my son weirds me out. His wife gives me a strange feeling. She smiles in your face, but you get the sense that she has great disdain for you...hard to explain. I've only seen her three times. She definitely had a big role in pulling him away. She wanted him all to herself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 49865, member: 1550"] Thanks, all. Hey, we have been in the Catholic and Lutheran Church, but to my son those aren't christian churches...lol. Unlike the kid who came home and broke the rules, Scott and difficult child wife NEVER break the rules. they don't even own a television, as it is evil. They don't believe in giving presents. My son used to be very generous with his younger siblings, but now they are lucky to get a computerized birthday card from him. He usually doesn't even acknowledge them. I got no acknowledgement for mothers day until three days later w hen I got a strange card from his wife only. It said "Celebrate" on the front and was blank inside (definitely not a Mothers Day Card). She wrote a short message thanking me for the wonderful man that my son is. If you knew her, you'd realize that was a nasty dig. She signed her name without "love" or including my son's name. What a Christian, huh? I'm wondering if the church tells the members only to date people of their own race. It wouldn't shock me if this cultish church was also racist. Scott was obviously raised in a multi-racial family, but, for a while, he would only date Chinese women. Asian wasn't enough. They had to be Chinese. I guess I'll step back. I really can't condone what he is doing and, although the door is always open, I don't know how I'd deal with them if he chose to see me. I often slip up and say "Oh, my God" and I watch movies and my daughter (his sister) is living with her boyfriend of four years, and I don't find it a lethal sin. We speak different languages. Extreme Christians make me feel they are judging everything I do...I don't understand them. I'm comfortable in regular, mainstream churches, not these extreme places. They weird me out. I admit my son weirds me out. His wife gives me a strange feeling. She smiles in your face, but you get the sense that she has great disdain for you...hard to explain. I've only seen her three times. She definitely had a big role in pulling him away. She wanted him all to herself. [/QUOTE]
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