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<blockquote data-quote="detachingmother" data-source="post: 680116" data-attributes="member: 20063"><p>I will also add that my Son was insufferable/intolerable to live with. If he had been more tolerable I may have let him stay.</p><p></p><p>We each have to make our own boundaries and then stick with them whatever those may be...</p><p></p><p>Also, at first when Son went to get loans for school, he was just probably thinking he would use the system and just get the money and do "ignorant" things with it, but he was around others who were working on their lives, around professors (someone other than mom in his face), who encouraged him, and somewhat of a small miracle started to happen. He started visualizing himself as someone who could be capable. Long story, he has some issues with confidence...I'll just say his father was rough on him. He ended up using some of his loan money to start his business and paid back some of his loans already. He just did this long enough to get his own business up and running. </p><p></p><p>I'm not saying this would work for your son, just saying as example. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> </p><p></p><p>And, if you do put out your son now, or one day down the road, just know there will be relapses probably. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p><p></p><p>Love, light, and prayers to you!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="detachingmother, post: 680116, member: 20063"] I will also add that my Son was insufferable/intolerable to live with. If he had been more tolerable I may have let him stay. We each have to make our own boundaries and then stick with them whatever those may be... Also, at first when Son went to get loans for school, he was just probably thinking he would use the system and just get the money and do "ignorant" things with it, but he was around others who were working on their lives, around professors (someone other than mom in his face), who encouraged him, and somewhat of a small miracle started to happen. He started visualizing himself as someone who could be capable. Long story, he has some issues with confidence...I'll just say his father was rough on him. He ended up using some of his loan money to start his business and paid back some of his loans already. He just did this long enough to get his own business up and running. I'm not saying this would work for your son, just saying as example. :) And, if you do put out your son now, or one day down the road, just know there will be relapses probably. :( Love, light, and prayers to you! [/QUOTE]
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