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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 633867" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Hi and welcome.</p><p></p><p>I know exactly what you are feeling and dealing with. My son ended up on house arrest and the court mandated that he do it at my house even though he was an adult. I tried to tell them they should find him a place to live. Didnt work. My son also has moved his entire family in on me a couple of times over the years. </p><p></p><p>It is so confusing isnt it?</p><p></p><p>Right now their father and I have left them behind at the family home and we moved out. We couldnt take the constant fighting, the refusal to do anything anyone asked, everyone expecting their dad to be the only provider and me be the chief cook and bottle washer. Nope....we left to keep what little is left of our sanity. We do make them pay rent which they do. They know if they dont, they will be gone. I dont expect this to last forever. I hope they get tired and move out. Honestly I hope my oldest moves out first. He is the one we figured would never leave and I think this is the only way we could force the matter...if he gets so fed up living with his brother he may just find a way. He was too comfortable with us. For some unknown reason my son's father is considering turning our home into a duplex and I assume he thinks Cory will rent the other side. Sigh. I dont even want that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 633867, member: 1514"] Hi and welcome. I know exactly what you are feeling and dealing with. My son ended up on house arrest and the court mandated that he do it at my house even though he was an adult. I tried to tell them they should find him a place to live. Didnt work. My son also has moved his entire family in on me a couple of times over the years. It is so confusing isnt it? Right now their father and I have left them behind at the family home and we moved out. We couldnt take the constant fighting, the refusal to do anything anyone asked, everyone expecting their dad to be the only provider and me be the chief cook and bottle washer. Nope....we left to keep what little is left of our sanity. We do make them pay rent which they do. They know if they dont, they will be gone. I dont expect this to last forever. I hope they get tired and move out. Honestly I hope my oldest moves out first. He is the one we figured would never leave and I think this is the only way we could force the matter...if he gets so fed up living with his brother he may just find a way. He was too comfortable with us. For some unknown reason my son's father is considering turning our home into a duplex and I assume he thinks Cory will rent the other side. Sigh. I dont even want that. [/QUOTE]
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