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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 666876" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>In my opinion, it's not about forgiveness. It's about trust. Having been badly hurt twice, she may feel strongly that she doesn't want to get too close to you again, because she doesn't want to risk getting hurt. Trust is very hard to gain back. For a minimum it takes a lot of time and a lot of willingness to go with the flow and accept the fact that you are not trusted.</p><p> </p><p>In some ways you are fortunate that you even have "limited visiting rights". Some kids will do a 100% cut-off. Take what you have, work with it. It may even help to get some help for yourself. A therapist for ourselves has been a significant help to many of us on this board.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 666876, member: 11791"] In my opinion, it's not about forgiveness. It's about trust. Having been badly hurt twice, she may feel strongly that she doesn't want to get too close to you again, because she doesn't want to risk getting hurt. Trust is very hard to gain back. For a minimum it takes a lot of time and a lot of willingness to go with the flow and accept the fact that you are not trusted. In some ways you are fortunate that you even have "limited visiting rights". Some kids will do a 100% cut-off. Take what you have, work with it. It may even help to get some help for yourself. A therapist for ourselves has been a significant help to many of us on this board. [/QUOTE]
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