I recently joined this forum and this is my first post. I have read several posts and I am so glad I found this website. My husband and I are in the process of adopting three beautiful children and we are dealing with issues that we we are not totally prepared for. The most pressing concern at this time is our adopted son who has just been diagnosed with ADHD. He has been retained twice and has several behavioral issues that need to be addressed. The poor thing has fallen through the cracks in the foster care system and has never been offered help. My husband and I are working very hard with the school, DCF, counselors, and his doctor to get him on the right track. I am overwhelmed and would appreciate any advice you have to offer. Thanks.