Katyg you've come to the right place, we know what it's like. Welcome. Just so you know, you have replied to another posters thread and it would be beneficial if you could start your own which will offer you more responses. It also helps us to help you more if you put information at the bottom as you see we've done. Your question as to how do you let go is a big one, most of us here are living within that question every single day. Detachment from our own kids is a process which takes time, commitment and it has many ups and downs. If your son is not getting help to change his behavior and not abiding by the boundaries and rules you present him with to be able to live in your home, then it becomes clear that he has to live elsewhere.
I am off to work now, but will check in later. I'm glad you found us and I'm sorry you are having to live with these issues. Others will be along soon. (((HUGS)))
I am off to work now, but will check in later. I'm glad you found us and I'm sorry you are having to live with these issues. Others will be along soon. (((HUGS)))