Hello, Well I guess I can say if I have found this site....I need help!! or to just feel common and know I am not the only one who has children who are a "little" okay a lot difficult at times My middle child the child who is giving us the most extreme difficulties currently. We are having to "restrain" her sometimes to keep everyone safe. We have had full neuropsychologist and are working on medications just not sure I like what I see so far. Most evenings after my long prayers to God for help I just cry. I hurt physically and emotionally. I wish there was a magic answer. We used Dr. Becky Bailey Conscious Discipline which worked well until she started kindergarten. Since school has started her behavior has dramatically decreased and unfortunately has made a name for herself. We are trying the Accountable Kids Program currently just to make it through the days responsibilities without an explosion. First day went well, second day terrible and today okay. I am embarrassed to say I have a degree in early childhood education. However, I am at a loss as to what to do for her. She listens to my husband MUCH better than me which drives me crazy!!! I am open to any advice on behavior modification plans, medication etc. anyone may have....I am desperate. Thank you and I am sooooo looking forward to this group.