New to the site but not to the problems of dealing with our 31 year old, college educated, heroin addicted son. My wife and I have been living the nightmare for the past 6 years or so. To complicate things he got married in June so now there another element to this tragedy. He was clean for almost 3 years, lost his job and apparently relapsed shortly before his marriage. Our new year is not off to a great start-he's in county jail-not his 1st time in jail. Sad but at least he can't get drugs and he'll detox and we'll know where he is. Not sure what else to say other than I think I'll hopefully find some comfort here and maybe some wisdom from others who've gone done this path. Keep saying "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me" (Philippians 4:13) but we're really having a hard time.