Hello, My difficult child is 18 and 5 months pregnant (AGAIN) WE have custody of her first child (he is 2) We also have a easy child/difficult child that is 16 and traumatized by her sister. difficult child 1 has been thrown out of where she was living and has nowhere to go! I refuse to let her come home BUT I am so TORN by the decision. I feel like I am choosing between my children! WE let her come and see the baby when she wants, which is when she needs something. She doesn't have a maternal bone in her body. difficult child 2's counselor said that we need to make clearer lines with difficult child 1. That we should consider having her visit the baby out of the home. That it would clearly define that she is not part of the household. I understand the reasoning but, I am not sure if I am ready to cut MORE ties with her. It is TERRIBLE to be in this situation! There is NO right decision. I just don't know what to do that is right by everyone. Any suggestions would be great!