Well, I have not posted for a while but am going to leave this update today just to clear my mind and hopefully hear some feedback from everyone. The saga of my daughter is now at the point that she has no job, due to a failed arrangement with her daughter to babysit her grandson. The daughter quit her job and shipped the 5 mo. old to her older sister who now is raising him. So my daughter is in an apartment with rent needing to be paid and bills she has not way to pay, a vehicle that has died etc, etc. She left here on really bad terms last year and has been in Missouri for nearly a year now. She is trying to get a job within walking distance to her apartment and has made some changes. She is not complaining or whining or crying but rather says that she wants to work a while and think about what she really wants to do. She probably wants to come back here due to her grandchildren being here, but wants to work long enough to be able to make her own way back and not rely on us or anyone to provide that for her. I think that is a good idea. So for now I am just being a moral support to her and have told her that I could be here to talk to and would support any good decisions she makes and do care about her. That is all I can do for now.