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<blockquote data-quote="Ironbutterfly" data-source="post: 706807" data-attributes="member: 19951"><p>Hello- I'm so sorry all that you are going through. We here, understand the worries of our Difficult Child's. As hard as it is to hear that your daughters grand-child is to be taken to the firehouse, perhaps this child will be adopted and have a better, stable life. It sounds like with mental disability, she would not be able to provide a decent life for her child. If grand-daughter has been on disability, she should be receiving monthly checks.</p><p></p><p>We all have been broken at some point in our lives; some of us still there. First step is knowing and accepting that we can't fix our Difficult Child'S problems. YOU have to move on and live your own life. Your daughter is an adult and she will find her way one way or another. We never stop worrying, but every day we stop trying to fix them and work on our lives and moving forward is the only thing we can do. Read the articles on enabling and detachment here on the main page. Find a healthy boundary with your daughter and grand-daughter if they should call and ask for help. Plan now for what you feel comfortable doing for them or not doing for them. Keep posting and keep us updated.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ironbutterfly, post: 706807, member: 19951"] Hello- I'm so sorry all that you are going through. We here, understand the worries of our Difficult Child's. As hard as it is to hear that your daughters grand-child is to be taken to the firehouse, perhaps this child will be adopted and have a better, stable life. It sounds like with mental disability, she would not be able to provide a decent life for her child. If grand-daughter has been on disability, she should be receiving monthly checks. We all have been broken at some point in our lives; some of us still there. First step is knowing and accepting that we can't fix our Difficult Child'S problems. YOU have to move on and live your own life. Your daughter is an adult and she will find her way one way or another. We never stop worrying, but every day we stop trying to fix them and work on our lives and moving forward is the only thing we can do. Read the articles on enabling and detachment here on the main page. Find a healthy boundary with your daughter and grand-daughter if they should call and ask for help. Plan now for what you feel comfortable doing for them or not doing for them. Keep posting and keep us updated. [/QUOTE]
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