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<blockquote data-quote="ColleenB" data-source="post: 675493" data-attributes="member: 19887"><p>Thank you so much for your wise words.... I am in denial, shock.... Not sure what to do next. But I know that others have gone through this and I can survive this too. </p><p></p><p>Leaf, your insight into how I am feeling made me cry.... It is a nightmare. And I know I need to see things clearly and not enable his behaviour. My husband and I will be sitting down with him when we return home and hopefully he will decide to abide by our rules. We are willing to provide a place to live, a car to drive and help with university. But we will not allow more of his selling drugs as his "job". We will be very clear about that. </p><p></p><p>On this trip his younger brother has witnessed him shopping with money he did not earn. It's been so wrong. I feel like I shouldn't have allowed him to spend it, but I couldn't really stop it. </p><p></p><p>We will make it clear that it can't continue. I want to include my younger son in our family meeting so he knows the boundaries too</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ColleenB, post: 675493, member: 19887"] Thank you so much for your wise words.... I am in denial, shock.... Not sure what to do next. But I know that others have gone through this and I can survive this too. Leaf, your insight into how I am feeling made me cry.... It is a nightmare. And I know I need to see things clearly and not enable his behaviour. My husband and I will be sitting down with him when we return home and hopefully he will decide to abide by our rules. We are willing to provide a place to live, a car to drive and help with university. But we will not allow more of his selling drugs as his "job". We will be very clear about that. On this trip his younger brother has witnessed him shopping with money he did not earn. It's been so wrong. I feel like I shouldn't have allowed him to spend it, but I couldn't really stop it. We will make it clear that it can't continue. I want to include my younger son in our family meeting so he knows the boundaries too [/QUOTE]
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