Hi I'm brand new to this forum and desperate for help. I'm going to try and give as much info as I can. My son is 4 years old. He hasn't missed any milestones,and he is very intelligent. He uses adult words and has an incredible memory. He gets obsessed with a subject and wont let it go for months. When he meets someone new all he wants to talk about is his newest obsession. If someone talks about something other then that he ignores them or changes the subject back. He has an extreme problem with discipline. If he is told to do something he has a melt down. He has told both me and my husband he hates us. If he does something wrong he blames it on us. If we take a toy away he plots how to get it back. Instead of feeling bad when he is naughty he somehow turns it all around until its somehow our fault. If he is hurt or upset he wont let us comfort him and he has been that way since he was a toddler. He follows me around and tries to annoy me. He loves to push my buttons,and he loves when I am angry. When I tell him I'm angry he laughs. He has no remorse for his actions. He is mean to our dog. He also tells my mom something that has happened,and then twists it all around to his favor. Then he'll tell her I'm mean to him,or I'm jealous of him,or that he doesn't trust me.. Our house is in constant chaos and hes constantly battling us for control.I love my son more then anything and I'm so desperate for some kind of answer for why he acts this way. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.