i say quick because it's almost midnight and i'm fading fast! i am sooo very happy to have found this board. i am sure i'll be a frequent visitor. my 11 yr old was just diagnosed ADHD/ODD and we are going to be starting on Focalin (sp?) this week. i am glad to finally have a diagnosis of sorts but am saddened to think of my baby having such rough life. of course, ask me how sad i am when he is being defiant i am trying to find out all i can in order to help him with this. i also fear it getting worse as the teenage years set in. i have 2 lo's and the constant arguing takes its toll on them, too. anyhoo, hello to you all! i am sure i will have neverending questions when i am not quite so tired.