Where to start. I am Shelly 37 married to Marc 37. Mom to Tharyn 11 (ADHD & ODD & Poss Bi-Polar) Duncan 9. Problems started with Tharyn when he was 5. That's when they diagnosis'd him as ADHD. 2yrs later we got the ODD news. He is on Concerta and has tried other medications too. He is so out of control. He has won!!! Everyone in this house is fighting because of him and he just sits back and watches. Sure it starts with him gettting into trouble but he is goo...he turns it right around on us all. His brother sits in his room and cries all the time because of the yelling and his outbursts. I am almost out of tears. It is 6:30 am here and I am ready for a glass of wine. Been a long day already. He is in his room trying to calm down after being busted breaking a rule in the house. But THAT is MY fault now...just ask him... He goes to counceling, and is going to start with a specialist Pshychiatrist next week. I am lost and do not know what to do...BOOTCAMP?!?!?!?!?!?!?! Help with any advice from anyone who has seen better days please!!!!!!!!