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<blockquote data-quote="mof" data-source="post: 704591" data-attributes="member: 20533"><p>Your story for me was hard to read. I can feel your wife's love for him...but you should come first. You are her husband, and step dad or not, you will need to work on being a United front.</p><p></p><p>Our adult son lives with us...I wish he didn't, but he does for now...he too has no idea what he wants...though our stories are very different..I agree you need to get help, then maybe you can help mom.</p><p></p><p>Maybe your steps are assisting him to move out..studio, roommate..he obviously gets up goes to work...you charge him nothing..so where do you want his money to go?</p><p></p><p>Weed would have to go...if he does it in his own place..so be it.</p><p></p><p>None of our children should be compared to each other...our son saddens us, but it's his journey to live...he is working to buy his own car.</p><p></p><p>Stay strong...keep communication open with your wife...your stress can harm you. Decisions can be made with all in mind. </p><p></p><p>I agree...he should move out since he has no respect for your rules.</p><p></p><p>Keep posting, it helps.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mof, post: 704591, member: 20533"] Your story for me was hard to read. I can feel your wife's love for him...but you should come first. You are her husband, and step dad or not, you will need to work on being a United front. Our adult son lives with us...I wish he didn't, but he does for now...he too has no idea what he wants...though our stories are very different..I agree you need to get help, then maybe you can help mom. Maybe your steps are assisting him to move out..studio, roommate..he obviously gets up goes to work...you charge him nothing..so where do you want his money to go? Weed would have to go...if he does it in his own place..so be it. None of our children should be compared to each other...our son saddens us, but it's his journey to live...he is working to buy his own car. Stay strong...keep communication open with your wife...your stress can harm you. Decisions can be made with all in mind. I agree...he should move out since he has no respect for your rules. Keep posting, it helps. [/QUOTE]
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