Hello all Well,knowing some of you had to wait longer than me (once you got a referral or made an appointment" I feel lucky. His appointment is Nov 12 just to go explain whats wrong with him/ what reg pediatrician found! Then if needed the neuro evaluation!!!! So, Im scared , excited and frustrated. My main concern is that he is failing and its going to take so long- So If they finish and if there's medications/therapy depending what they find.. wont be until January??? Ugghh !!!( They wanted him with me today I guess they asked where he was- but they weren't going to even see him anyway.) Hes taking the IOWA test as we speak from 8am - all morning daily this week. How can I help my son at least pass with C's this year? Hes got many d/f's!!! I got to get a tutor for home maybe he will listen better to him/her but at school?? I know Trail Mix for snack helps concentration- help please? Ok , some of my family says its all made up and its bu** , kids back in the day had each other, no phone, no tv, no junk,( Ok, yes, dyes/certain foods can make issues true- allergies yes that they didn't have back then) no video games , only like hopscotch etc. No one ever had this trouble with their kids. Yet they understand Schizophrenia. I told them that most kids are born with these disorders, maybe all, the brain is different like missing something or too much of something else etc. Still, they say its an excuse for whatever reason. I am sooo scared- what if this Dr says my son is fine? That it is all me? I take the blame but than I will know it is all me. Although my daughter is quite, shes "normal" or different than my son and my friends daughter who has issues. Sorry for venting again.