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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 636829" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>JKF, I am sorry. Let your anxiety and your fear and your grief flow through you for a few days. Don't fight it. Make time for it, and let it flow. </p><p></p><p>Fighting our emotions is not good for us, and we do it because they don't feel good at all and they scare us to death. </p><p></p><p>But our emotions will not kill us, and it's healing to feel them.</p><p></p><p>But don't take action based on your feelings right now or for the next few days. These feelings will pass. You know they have before and they will again.</p><p></p><p>Let them pass.</p><p></p><p>Then look up, look around, see what the lay of the land is then, and go from there. </p><p></p><p>Who knows what will happen? You have taken an important step here, and you have done it with the sure knowledge that he does have choices. That is very comforting to us when we need to make a big step like this.</p><p></p><p>He has choices. He can do something different, if he chooses to.</p><p></p><p>And you have choices. Choose yourself for a while. You deserve all good things. We are here with you and for you. Warm hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 636829, member: 17542"] JKF, I am sorry. Let your anxiety and your fear and your grief flow through you for a few days. Don't fight it. Make time for it, and let it flow. Fighting our emotions is not good for us, and we do it because they don't feel good at all and they scare us to death. But our emotions will not kill us, and it's healing to feel them. But don't take action based on your feelings right now or for the next few days. These feelings will pass. You know they have before and they will again. Let them pass. Then look up, look around, see what the lay of the land is then, and go from there. Who knows what will happen? You have taken an important step here, and you have done it with the sure knowledge that he does have choices. That is very comforting to us when we need to make a big step like this. He has choices. He can do something different, if he chooses to. And you have choices. Choose yourself for a while. You deserve all good things. We are here with you and for you. Warm hugs. [/QUOTE]
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