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<blockquote data-quote="AllStressedOut" data-source="post: 60204" data-attributes="member: 3837"><p>I would sit down and discuss what happened with your brother. He wants to help you and it may make him feel worse if you move away and struggle. If he is safe and good for your kids and you, you should never feel ashamed of him and the accusations made. I agree with Marg that leaving will make those people see guilt. If he didn't do anything wrong, stand by him and show others that he's not what they thought.</p><p></p><p>I can only imagine what the accusations are, but I'm sure they were extremely hurtful to both you and him. Sit down with him and let him know you don't believe them. He needs to hear that from you. Talk with him about what he wants to do and what he thinks.</p><p></p><p>Then I would do as Marg suggested and make lists. Moving isn't going to solve any problems with your difficult children. If they are the ones who made the false accusations, moving is just going to show them that by doing it, they got you to react. </p><p></p><p>I hope things calm down and I hope you can get past others thinking this of your family. I think standing by your family speaks more than moving away. Good luck!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AllStressedOut, post: 60204, member: 3837"] I would sit down and discuss what happened with your brother. He wants to help you and it may make him feel worse if you move away and struggle. If he is safe and good for your kids and you, you should never feel ashamed of him and the accusations made. I agree with Marg that leaving will make those people see guilt. If he didn't do anything wrong, stand by him and show others that he's not what they thought. I can only imagine what the accusations are, but I'm sure they were extremely hurtful to both you and him. Sit down with him and let him know you don't believe them. He needs to hear that from you. Talk with him about what he wants to do and what he thinks. Then I would do as Marg suggested and make lists. Moving isn't going to solve any problems with your difficult children. If they are the ones who made the false accusations, moving is just going to show them that by doing it, they got you to react. I hope things calm down and I hope you can get past others thinking this of your family. I think standing by your family speaks more than moving away. Good luck! [/QUOTE]
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