Hi I've posted before on a different thread but can't figure out how to get back to it. To stressed to try I guess. My 25 yr old son has serious mood disorders and is verbally abusive towards me and my husband. We've kicked him out since he won't get help. He's now with his girlfriend who enables him and she too is at her wits end. He's so abusive verbally and recently attacked a family member in our home due to thoughts he was having that was totally delusional. He gets pshycosis due to cannibas use. He refuses to get in a 12 step program, he refuses to take his medicine and he won't go to the counseling we set up. I've now blocked him from calling me and I stay away from my home because he just pops up since he lives around the corner. We have put off buying a home for over 5 years because we are always helping him and taking care of all his responsibilities. Like his kids, daycare, phone, Car, etc. we have recently cut him off financially and Praise God we have entered into a contact for a new home. However I can't help but to feel guilty and to think that he may be homeless soon. I'm trying very hard to remind myself these are consequences of his choices not mine and I have made so many sacrifices to ensure he had a good life. I just want peace and I want him to be okay. I want my life back. I want to be able to just be a grandparent.