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<blockquote data-quote="Malika" data-source="post: 636328" data-attributes="member: 11227"><p>Thanks. Maybe I'm on the wrong track with the alcohol thing. I can't ever know for sure since sadly it is very unlikely that we will ever meet J's birth mother.</p><p></p><p>I think things are worse than I have been acknowledging. J is a great kid, lots of people say he is a great kid and yet... his behaviour is so frequently unmanageable, chaotic. Unable or unwilling to follow rules in any group setting for much of the time, raging anger outbursts at times. Lots of people blame me, and maybe I haven't done a good job of boundary setting and all the rest. It's not meant to be this hard, though... </p><p></p><p>I am fearful for the future, I'll be honest. So many places we can't go, so many places he's not welcome any more because of his behaviour... We do need to be in a place where there is more in place to help him because although I don't want it, I think that's the road we're going down.</p><p></p><p>Sorry, just watched "We need to talk about Kevin...." hasn't inspired my thoughts in an optimistic direction.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Malika, post: 636328, member: 11227"] Thanks. Maybe I'm on the wrong track with the alcohol thing. I can't ever know for sure since sadly it is very unlikely that we will ever meet J's birth mother. I think things are worse than I have been acknowledging. J is a great kid, lots of people say he is a great kid and yet... his behaviour is so frequently unmanageable, chaotic. Unable or unwilling to follow rules in any group setting for much of the time, raging anger outbursts at times. Lots of people blame me, and maybe I haven't done a good job of boundary setting and all the rest. It's not meant to be this hard, though... I am fearful for the future, I'll be honest. So many places we can't go, so many places he's not welcome any more because of his behaviour... We do need to be in a place where there is more in place to help him because although I don't want it, I think that's the road we're going down. Sorry, just watched "We need to talk about Kevin...." hasn't inspired my thoughts in an optimistic direction. [/QUOTE]
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