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<blockquote data-quote="Sunlight" data-source="post: 33580" data-attributes="member: 97"><p>thanks fran for asking. well, as you know I asked ant to move out on March 27th. he walked out with nothing but called in a bit and asked me what he was going to do? I told him I didnt know. he came back in a short time and took clothes. the next day he was back and took his bed as well as Kaleb's bed. he glared at me and would not speak to me and left in the truck some girl was driving.</p><p></p><p>no word for a week. boyfriend has told me that ant has not missed one day of work and is getting rides. ant's dad charges him to ride him some of the time. other times he is driven by any one of a number of girls. apparently he is renting one bedroom off a gal with two kids. she lives in a duplex and needs help with rent money. she charges him 50.00 more a month than I did. no lease. they are not romantically involved. </p><p></p><p>Kaleb went back to his mom's two days before I had ant move out. I knew once he was due to return I would hear from ant. sure enough he called me yesterday and said Kaleb was coming in a week and he had no sitter. (not one word of apology from ant just asking for help with Kaleb)</p><p></p><p>I told him I will watch kaleb when I am off work but only during ant's working hours. that left uncovered days. ant said he could not find anyone. I told him to try harder. boyfriend tells me ant found someone for the other days. </p><p></p><p>I am at peace with him out. I know he is angry but he is almost 24 and can support himself. I also know I have zero tolerance for swearing, disrespect of me and my space,and him calling me while he is drunk after I have gotten to bed. I believe if he has to take care of all his own needs and bills, he may have to toe the line more. if not, his problem. I expect in time he will get over his anger at me for making him grow up.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sunlight, post: 33580, member: 97"] thanks fran for asking. well, as you know I asked ant to move out on March 27th. he walked out with nothing but called in a bit and asked me what he was going to do? I told him I didnt know. he came back in a short time and took clothes. the next day he was back and took his bed as well as Kaleb's bed. he glared at me and would not speak to me and left in the truck some girl was driving. no word for a week. boyfriend has told me that ant has not missed one day of work and is getting rides. ant's dad charges him to ride him some of the time. other times he is driven by any one of a number of girls. apparently he is renting one bedroom off a gal with two kids. she lives in a duplex and needs help with rent money. she charges him 50.00 more a month than I did. no lease. they are not romantically involved. Kaleb went back to his mom's two days before I had ant move out. I knew once he was due to return I would hear from ant. sure enough he called me yesterday and said Kaleb was coming in a week and he had no sitter. (not one word of apology from ant just asking for help with Kaleb) I told him I will watch kaleb when I am off work but only during ant's working hours. that left uncovered days. ant said he could not find anyone. I told him to try harder. boyfriend tells me ant found someone for the other days. I am at peace with him out. I know he is angry but he is almost 24 and can support himself. I also know I have zero tolerance for swearing, disrespect of me and my space,and him calling me while he is drunk after I have gotten to bed. I believe if he has to take care of all his own needs and bills, he may have to toe the line more. if not, his problem. I expect in time he will get over his anger at me for making him grow up. [/QUOTE]
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