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<blockquote data-quote="Fran" data-source="post: 58601" data-attributes="member: 3"><p><span style='font-size: 11pt'>Wiped out, I agree with slsh. This isn't "less violent" it is over the top and you are used to being victimized. I apologize ahead of time as I know what I am saying is blunt. You and husband are so used to being treated with aggressive behavior that you think this is what you have to do. This is not a life and he is not acting better. </p><p>I can't imagine being demoralized and humiliated by anyone on a continuous basis as your difficult child does to you and think anything good will come of this situation. Not for you, for easy child or husband. The ship will end up sinking with difficult child if you continue to live in this sort of pressure cooker. </p><p>He put his hands on your neck, bit you through blankets and poured milk over your head!!!!!! This is abuse and assault. If he were a student charges would be made or other environment choices made. Why do you think that your family deserves less? Do you think that 18yrs of this abuse will result in a healthy difficult child or a healthy family? No way. It costs everyone to the point of ruin. </p><p>Any of us who have had difficult child's that were in such a disruptive state know the toll it takes. We have all done different things to alleviate the collateral damage to our other children or our marriages but it's there but no way should things go on as they have.</p><p>We can not save difficult children. We can help them learn better ways but their ability to process that info varies and not all difficult children can make that leap. </p><p>You have my sympathies and my sad heart for what your family endures and accepts as just difficult child having a bad day. </span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Fran, post: 58601, member: 3"] <span style='font-size: 11pt'>Wiped out, I agree with slsh. This isn't "less violent" it is over the top and you are used to being victimized. I apologize ahead of time as I know what I am saying is blunt. You and husband are so used to being treated with aggressive behavior that you think this is what you have to do. This is not a life and he is not acting better. I can't imagine being demoralized and humiliated by anyone on a continuous basis as your difficult child does to you and think anything good will come of this situation. Not for you, for easy child or husband. The ship will end up sinking with difficult child if you continue to live in this sort of pressure cooker. He put his hands on your neck, bit you through blankets and poured milk over your head!!!!!! This is abuse and assault. If he were a student charges would be made or other environment choices made. Why do you think that your family deserves less? Do you think that 18yrs of this abuse will result in a healthy difficult child or a healthy family? No way. It costs everyone to the point of ruin. Any of us who have had difficult child's that were in such a disruptive state know the toll it takes. We have all done different things to alleviate the collateral damage to our other children or our marriages but it's there but no way should things go on as they have. We can not save difficult children. We can help them learn better ways but their ability to process that info varies and not all difficult children can make that leap. You have my sympathies and my sad heart for what your family endures and accepts as just difficult child having a bad day. </span> [/QUOTE]
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