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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 629957" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>exgf's mom seems to have good intentions. Whatever her intentions are, that is between she and your son. You're caught in his drama and being ripped back and forth by the winds of his insane life, you've got to get off that wheel and get back on stable ground. If you can get yourself to a 12 step group or somewhere where you will feel seen and heard, where you can get understanding and empathy, you can take a deep breath and remember that you're in your own skin, in your own life, and let go of his life so you can get back on level ground once again.</p><p></p><p> For me, the only way I was able to get off of the death grip that codependency or enabling has was to seek out as much support as I could. </p><p></p><p>I'm sorry BG, this is such hard stuff to go through. Please find some kind of supportive atmosphere so you can lean on them as you go through this. I hope the crying helped. It helps me, it's a big release and often allows us to breathe deeply once again and allow new thoughts to enter our heads. HUGS.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 629957, member: 13542"] exgf's mom seems to have good intentions. Whatever her intentions are, that is between she and your son. You're caught in his drama and being ripped back and forth by the winds of his insane life, you've got to get off that wheel and get back on stable ground. If you can get yourself to a 12 step group or somewhere where you will feel seen and heard, where you can get understanding and empathy, you can take a deep breath and remember that you're in your own skin, in your own life, and let go of his life so you can get back on level ground once again. For me, the only way I was able to get off of the death grip that codependency or enabling has was to seek out as much support as I could. I'm sorry BG, this is such hard stuff to go through. Please find some kind of supportive atmosphere so you can lean on them as you go through this. I hope the crying helped. It helps me, it's a big release and often allows us to breathe deeply once again and allow new thoughts to enter our heads. HUGS. [/QUOTE]
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