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Not Remembering How People Are: Going Into Denial About Them
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<blockquote data-quote="pigless in VA" data-source="post: 714821" data-attributes="member: 11832"><p>Oooo! Oooo! Me, too! <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/dance.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":dance:" title="dance :dance:" data-shortname=":dance:" /></p><p></p><p>My therapist is fond of telling me that we all go through life experiencing it differently by looking through our different lenses. Yes, there are people who thrive on the drama. I think it somehow energizes them. It sucks the life out of me.</p><p></p><p>I also think that people who behave in a bullying way, get a backwards sense of power out of giving pain to other people. The only way we can keep them from hurting us, is to toughen up and not ever let them view the pain that they give us. From years of dealing with Lloyd, it is now second nature for me to not react, be calm, be aloof, and appear unfazed.</p><p></p><p>The reality is that I am terribly hurt by some of the things that SO and Ferb say and do. I just go quietly away and lick my emotional wounds in private. It gives them much less power.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="pigless in VA, post: 714821, member: 11832"] Oooo! Oooo! Me, too! :dance: My therapist is fond of telling me that we all go through life experiencing it differently by looking through our different lenses. Yes, there are people who thrive on the drama. I think it somehow energizes them. It sucks the life out of me. I also think that people who behave in a bullying way, get a backwards sense of power out of giving pain to other people. The only way we can keep them from hurting us, is to toughen up and not ever let them view the pain that they give us. From years of dealing with Lloyd, it is now second nature for me to not react, be calm, be aloof, and appear unfazed. The reality is that I am terribly hurt by some of the things that SO and Ferb say and do. I just go quietly away and lick my emotional wounds in private. It gives them much less power. [/QUOTE]
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