hi to everyone,
sorry i haven't been in much i've been trying so hard to journal and to get stuff done.
im kinda sad about difficult child. i spoke to teacher today she said she's doing ok she's surviving. i think the teacher is looking forward to end of year to be quite honest.
difficult child has been doing the anxiety nurse thing again this week. the weeks are all so different there are good weeks then bad weeks. she hasn't slept this week either. she finally crashed tonight.
she flew sunday, monday, partial on tuesday about 1 a.m., wed 1 a.m. sunday and monday were all nighters. tonight she crashed hard and cried at dinner was very weepy and sad.
she spoke of her old school and neighborhood prior to this one. and how happy she was etc. weird thing is she wasn't at all, anxiety was thru the roof, that's when the sh*t hit the fan so to speak pretty badly. so i spoke to her about that stuff and she shut down immediately with i dot'n want to talk about it. i said ti's ok i just want you to know that it was the same baby as it was here. we are working on it.
then i asked her is it frustrating how you feel inside? she started crying and said yes. then i don't want to talk about it again so i backed off and just hugged her alot older difficult child made her laugh adn i gave her a cupcake.
in the lunchroom she now sits facing the wall so she can eat her lunch because she is too paranoid and anxiety ridden about other kids watching her. in class she barely gets by, recess has turned into a good thing she is actually socializing somewhat even on bad days, well bad days she goes to nurse actualy during recess.
columbia said she is critically depressed, anxiety ridden but their not ready to say bi polar. i watch the swings all week. i shake my head sleeplessly and just don't get it any of it. my confusion is worse than ever before. i want an answer a true answer yet columbia doesn't seem to me at least that their minds are open to bi polar even. she explains difficult child's sleep as i had stated before as asleep disorder. i do not believe this is it. yet i will do the study to rule it out. there are too many other variables at play. the mood swings, the lack of focus, the anxiety, the highs and lows.
so i heard there is a study going on in pittsburgh i'm out of money but i'm thinking of trying to cal them to see what the deal is there. it's a team of doctors who truly spend time with your child to get Occupational Therapist (OT) know them not an outpatient 3 dy run of neuropsychologist testing.
i want to help her i truly do yet i know deep down inside she's not good and it's coming out so often now on the outside.
the antipyschotic drugs are bad. i saw it on a special. bi polar is so new now and it's never been tested on kids the drugs so dr.s are prescribing it not truly knowing what the side effects will be.
some kids are actually having tics come up they did a study ten years down the road after the medication has been stopped and was out of system. not to scare anyone but this stuff is no joke.
in my opinion there needs to be more funding and more research done on this topic so that we the parents have better answers for our little people who are also the future.
Jen
sorry i haven't been in much i've been trying so hard to journal and to get stuff done.
im kinda sad about difficult child. i spoke to teacher today she said she's doing ok she's surviving. i think the teacher is looking forward to end of year to be quite honest.
difficult child has been doing the anxiety nurse thing again this week. the weeks are all so different there are good weeks then bad weeks. she hasn't slept this week either. she finally crashed tonight.
she flew sunday, monday, partial on tuesday about 1 a.m., wed 1 a.m. sunday and monday were all nighters. tonight she crashed hard and cried at dinner was very weepy and sad.
she spoke of her old school and neighborhood prior to this one. and how happy she was etc. weird thing is she wasn't at all, anxiety was thru the roof, that's when the sh*t hit the fan so to speak pretty badly. so i spoke to her about that stuff and she shut down immediately with i dot'n want to talk about it. i said ti's ok i just want you to know that it was the same baby as it was here. we are working on it.
then i asked her is it frustrating how you feel inside? she started crying and said yes. then i don't want to talk about it again so i backed off and just hugged her alot older difficult child made her laugh adn i gave her a cupcake.
in the lunchroom she now sits facing the wall so she can eat her lunch because she is too paranoid and anxiety ridden about other kids watching her. in class she barely gets by, recess has turned into a good thing she is actually socializing somewhat even on bad days, well bad days she goes to nurse actualy during recess.
columbia said she is critically depressed, anxiety ridden but their not ready to say bi polar. i watch the swings all week. i shake my head sleeplessly and just don't get it any of it. my confusion is worse than ever before. i want an answer a true answer yet columbia doesn't seem to me at least that their minds are open to bi polar even. she explains difficult child's sleep as i had stated before as asleep disorder. i do not believe this is it. yet i will do the study to rule it out. there are too many other variables at play. the mood swings, the lack of focus, the anxiety, the highs and lows.
so i heard there is a study going on in pittsburgh i'm out of money but i'm thinking of trying to cal them to see what the deal is there. it's a team of doctors who truly spend time with your child to get Occupational Therapist (OT) know them not an outpatient 3 dy run of neuropsychologist testing.
i want to help her i truly do yet i know deep down inside she's not good and it's coming out so often now on the outside.
the antipyschotic drugs are bad. i saw it on a special. bi polar is so new now and it's never been tested on kids the drugs so dr.s are prescribing it not truly knowing what the side effects will be.
some kids are actually having tics come up they did a study ten years down the road after the medication has been stopped and was out of system. not to scare anyone but this stuff is no joke.
in my opinion there needs to be more funding and more research done on this topic so that we the parents have better answers for our little people who are also the future.
Jen