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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 678422" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>It is not that they don't want family I don't think, Copa. It is that we need to reparent our children who have been so certain that whatever they did, we would never stand up and require better from them. We are changing. This can only be a good thing for the kids.</p><p></p><p>I love it that M said Son betrayed himself. I will begin seeing things that way, too.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Yes, this is such a good way to see the crazy, hurtful things our kids do. And I wonder why they feel so entitled? You would think they would be grateful for the chance to have somewhere safe to stay and that they would turn everything around in their lives for the better. But instead, they want to come home and create havoc for us because we love them too much to send them away.</p><p></p><p>We have such hard decisions to make. Once we do make the correct decision, it begins to seem too harsh. Even though we are certain the decision was the correct one, we turn on ourselves.</p><p></p><p>I am glad we are here, together. Remember Copa, how awful you felt when you make Son leave your home?</p><p></p><p>Son's behavior validates that you were correct in having done so.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 678422, member: 17461"] It is not that they don't want family I don't think, Copa. It is that we need to reparent our children who have been so certain that whatever they did, we would never stand up and require better from them. We are changing. This can only be a good thing for the kids. I love it that M said Son betrayed himself. I will begin seeing things that way, too. Yes, this is such a good way to see the crazy, hurtful things our kids do. And I wonder why they feel so entitled? You would think they would be grateful for the chance to have somewhere safe to stay and that they would turn everything around in their lives for the better. But instead, they want to come home and create havoc for us because we love them too much to send them away. We have such hard decisions to make. Once we do make the correct decision, it begins to seem too harsh. Even though we are certain the decision was the correct one, we turn on ourselves. I am glad we are here, together. Remember Copa, how awful you felt when you make Son leave your home? Son's behavior validates that you were correct in having done so. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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