Got home from camping. I took off Friday to talk to the ex-in-laws about the newly scheduled neuropsyche (hopefully they'd help pay since its out of pocket), and visit with therapist and the pharmacist about direction, PLUS get ready to go camping since the only thing ready to go was the physical camper that doesn't leak anymore...no food or anything. Went, had a good time, home, tired. We have easy child 2 this weekend. She asked me to take them to the indoor pool, I said I'd love to but can't, gotta get clothes washed for work. Half hour later, walked by husband sitting on the computer, and told him she'd asked, and what does he say "I'll take 'em". He's tired, he's short with difficult child, he's grumpy, so I ask him if he's really up to it and you know what he says "She wants to go and I haven't spent time with HER this weekend." I have asked and begged and pleaded with him to take those kids to do something 1000 times if ever, and he has NEVER bothered. "Its not his thing" he says. But easy child 2 asks and he's gone. Nails won't even cover what I want to spit right now. I have worked so hard to not have a divide in my family and my inlaws, and often my H. create a gap as big as the friggin' continental divide.