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now son wants to leave country....!
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 680221" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>There is no way to stop him at his age. Overtalking about it with him may just make him more determined to go. Id stop giving feedback. Hes not listening and, like many dysfunctional loved ones, is not one bit worried about the future. Seems he only thinks of what he wants to do right now.</p><p>On the other hand, scattered, risktakers change their minds day to day. Today he wants to see bio. Dad. Tomorrow he may meet a hot girl and want to stay right where he is.</p><p>I love the idea of letting go of outcomes. We are powerless to control our grown kids and powerless to control our childrens life outcome.</p><p>Try to relax. You cant contro him. Focus on your oen peace, knowing you have done all you can. Your own suffering doesnt help your son and could make you sick...and you matter.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 680221, member: 1550"] There is no way to stop him at his age. Overtalking about it with him may just make him more determined to go. Id stop giving feedback. Hes not listening and, like many dysfunctional loved ones, is not one bit worried about the future. Seems he only thinks of what he wants to do right now. On the other hand, scattered, risktakers change their minds day to day. Today he wants to see bio. Dad. Tomorrow he may meet a hot girl and want to stay right where he is. I love the idea of letting go of outcomes. We are powerless to control our grown kids and powerless to control our childrens life outcome. Try to relax. You cant contro him. Focus on your oen peace, knowing you have done all you can. Your own suffering doesnt help your son and could make you sick...and you matter. [/QUOTE]
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