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<blockquote data-quote="rebelson" data-source="post: 680375" data-attributes="member: 19966"><p>Welp, son was intoxicated last night. I called him (sorry I did) and he was pretty much on the borderline of incomprehensible. Then, a minute later, he'd say something completely understandable. Eventually, after much silence on his end, no answers coming from his side..he hung up. I immediately went in to panic mode, he is drunk and 'where is he?' Is he out about town in car? So, hub told me, 'there is NOTHING you can do about it...you're just going to have to let it go, and pray.'</p><p></p><p>So, I did. I put his phone # on 'silent' so if he called/texted, my phone wouldn't make a sound. And, I read my trusty 'St. Anne' novena. She's never failed me! And, went to bed.</p><p></p><p>This morning? 14 texts on phone from him starting at 8:14am. All rambling. In between the ....'s, was a new text. So they added up.</p><p></p><p>Here they are: 'I know your husbands everywhere......this is strictly between you and me......you stole my story.....I'm getting a cat today where do I get a kitten......Or should I get a dog or bird......Some women don't know they had the whole world right in front of their nose.....I didn't steal that story.....I don't think that's the difference between me & you.....I miss your constructive criticism I really do.....</p><p></p><p>I said: 'you sound like you did last night, intoxicated. You can call me when you're sober.'</p><p></p><p>He said: 'thanks for your permission.....(insert father's name here) is supreme to big b*tch......you're just indecisive and unreliable your proximity wreaks......I want to see you.....I never did before'</p><p></p><p>I said: 'You're way too angry, resentful to see me....us. Let me know when you're ready to talk to someone, a therapist.'</p><p></p><p>He said: 'you're just dumb.'</p><p></p><p>I said: '^^^^^^^^ dumb? Perfect example'</p><p></p><p>He said: 'Sucks to suck. I'm done playin checkers take your time.....don't think too much.....you simply cannot fathom'</p><p></p><p>I said: 'fathom what?'</p><p></p><p>And then nothing since.</p><p></p><p>He totally sounds still drunk. Lovely. At 8am in the morning . The part about him wanting to 'see me', scares the hell out of me! I <strong>cannot</strong> see him in the condition he's in....in middle of alcoholism. It's SO sad. This is the most horrible feeling for a mother to be feeling. NOT wanting to welcome her son in to her arms for a visit! <u><strong>Just awful........</strong></u></p><p></p><p>Ok, guys. Can any of you even slightly decipher what in the world he was thinking, trying to get across in words to me? Maybe I'm too 'in' the situation to read in to him...and you guys (fresher to situation) might be better at this? Does it sound like a girl shunned him? What's up with the 'you stole my story...' comments? </p><p></p><p>Any insight would be awesome!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rebelson, post: 680375, member: 19966"] Welp, son was intoxicated last night. I called him (sorry I did) and he was pretty much on the borderline of incomprehensible. Then, a minute later, he'd say something completely understandable. Eventually, after much silence on his end, no answers coming from his side..he hung up. I immediately went in to panic mode, he is drunk and 'where is he?' Is he out about town in car? So, hub told me, 'there is NOTHING you can do about it...you're just going to have to let it go, and pray.' So, I did. I put his phone # on 'silent' so if he called/texted, my phone wouldn't make a sound. And, I read my trusty 'St. Anne' novena. She's never failed me! And, went to bed. This morning? 14 texts on phone from him starting at 8:14am. All rambling. In between the ....'s, was a new text. So they added up. Here they are: 'I know your husbands everywhere......this is strictly between you and me......you stole my story.....I'm getting a cat today where do I get a kitten......Or should I get a dog or bird......Some women don't know they had the whole world right in front of their nose.....I didn't steal that story.....I don't think that's the difference between me & you.....I miss your constructive criticism I really do..... I said: 'you sound like you did last night, intoxicated. You can call me when you're sober.' He said: 'thanks for your permission.....(insert father's name here) is supreme to big b*tch......you're just indecisive and unreliable your proximity wreaks......I want to see you.....I never did before' I said: 'You're way too angry, resentful to see me....us. Let me know when you're ready to talk to someone, a therapist.' He said: 'you're just dumb.' I said: '^^^^^^^^ dumb? Perfect example' He said: 'Sucks to suck. I'm done playin checkers take your time.....don't think too much.....you simply cannot fathom' I said: 'fathom what?' And then nothing since. He totally sounds still drunk. Lovely. At 8am in the morning . The part about him wanting to 'see me', scares the hell out of me! I [B]cannot[/B] see him in the condition he's in....in middle of alcoholism. It's SO sad. This is the most horrible feeling for a mother to be feeling. NOT wanting to welcome her son in to her arms for a visit! [U][B]Just awful........[/B][/U] Ok, guys. Can any of you even slightly decipher what in the world he was thinking, trying to get across in words to me? Maybe I'm too 'in' the situation to read in to him...and you guys (fresher to situation) might be better at this? Does it sound like a girl shunned him? What's up with the 'you stole my story...' comments? Any insight would be awesome! [/QUOTE]
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