I never thought it would come down to kicking my daughter out the house. After all, this was a beautiful, kind, humble, girl. I never had issues with drugs, truancy, and all the bad things often associated with teens. In fact, she graduated with honors last year and began her first year of college. Somehow she became involved with this bad guy that she met her freshman year in high school. She told him she wanted to be friends back then as I had to contact his family when he would not leave her alone. She was only at that school for about 3 months. With me unexpectedly going on disability from back problems, their private school education was interrupted that year and had to home school the remaining of that school year but was then able to enroll them back into private school where both my daughters graduated. But he never really left her alone we have come to know. It was just last week, when it all unfolded with the truth. For the past six months, I knew her behavior had changed and the spark in her eyes was no longer. If I asked her what was wrong, she would just say the usual, "nothing." The arguments intensified, her attitude took a turn for the worst, she began going out every weekend and would often leave at the crack of dawn and return by midnight. In between this, she did introduce us to a guy that she went out with and now have come to know he was a cover up. About two months ago, she started asking me to spend the night with the guy. I told her absolutely no. Against my words, she stayed and would often return home Sunday evening. She said this guy told her that her curfew was too early. Considering she would leave at the crack of dawn and return by midnight, I would say that 11 to midnight was by far early for a curfew for a young woman. She just started a part time job and they scheduled her more hours than she requested but this was good I thought as it would keep her more grounded or so I thought. She said this guy said they would never see each other if she worked weekends, so she quit working weekends. She has been wanting a car but has only received 2 paychecks. I told her by her birthday(May) we would look into it after she had been working for a bit longer and felt that she could handle the job and work load along with her school. She then walked in two weeks ago and looked at me and said, " I do not do what you like often on the weekends and if you were to buy me a car, (with her name on it as well)you will take the car away from me. So she leaves on a Monday two weeks ago and shows back home on a Thursday with a new car. Keep in mind, she has no credit, just started a part time job and what my biggest fear was is that this guy pressured her into getting a car. My other daughter(her older sister) told me that she did in fact cosign with this guy. I happened to be on social media and decided to look as I knew she would have posted a picture of her "new" car. Working in the finance profession for almost 17 years, I knew no lender would finance her based on her credentials or so I thought I knew. This would have been a big red flag. She recently asked me if a 444 credit score was good and I said absolutely not!! I asked her who she knew had that score and she said "oh no one." She was just wondering. The fights, arguments, lies, rebellion was beyond anything I ever could imagine. Back to the moment I looked online, my biggest nightmare had come true. It was this "guy" that met her in high school her freshman year. I would always asked about the other guy she used as a cover up and she would become angry and yell at me, saying she did not want to talk about him. She never was physical with me, but one day I was going to walk out to see this guy that had tinted windows and she shoved me and ran out the back door. I would always asked her why suddenly did we not see this other guy she used as a cover up. It all unfolded when I saw the picture of her and him online. Her father and I packed her things and told her officially she had to go. He is a heart patient and I have had my own physical issues with my hip and back-surgeries back to back for 4 years and lost my most precious mother in 2015. We could not take the stress day after day, weekend after weekend any longer. I had often told her if she was not going to obey and wanted to spend the night out, then she needed to leave. She has grown up in a Christian environment and loving home. Of course, no home goes without issues but all in all, our girls have had a solid foundation and warm loving home all of their lives. She is a very beautiful bright girl, of course I am partial, but one with kindness and displayed her humble heart often to others. She was bullied for years and often had girls very jealous of her and as a result not many if any good friends. I know this intensified her insecurities and lowered her self esteem and confidence. I have come to find out since she has been kicked out the house, she has called my other daughter crying and saying negative things about this guy and how she did not know what to do to get out of it and how controlling he is. She apparently is staying with his mother and stepfather and their children about 45 minutes from our home. He now has a phone for her and the one we were paying for, well who knows what she did with that. Also, the day before we packed her belongings, my other daughter said he told my daughter to get all her things. It is as though we gave him exactly what he was pushing her to do...leave. When I reached out to her and she did not respond, I reached her through snap chat. She denied having a new phone initially and I assumed it was because it was probably in his name. I have heard 3 different stories since..his name but he pays, his mother's name but my daughter pays, and then my daughter's name and of course she pays. But she did ask me if I would pay it and when I inquired about the phone..whose name, the payment, plan etc. she avoided me. When my older daughter told me yesterday that he had taken the "new" car to work because he did not have money for his gas guzzler, I knew it was more than that. He did not want my daughter going anywhere while he worked yesterday as because the day before she drove my older daughter to work and he was mad she was not spending time with him. When she called on the phone the other night to my older daughter crying and saying she was going to turn her phone off and apparently some other worrisome words that my older daughter would not tell me, I was shaking out of my skin. This has devasted me and not I am not sure how I can get her back home and away from this horrible man. I know she has to be willing. Throughout the past six months or so, she would send me texts and random ones saying she needed to be around people who would lift her up and that she felt "forced" , she is weak and that she needed me to help her but when I would ask what she would then say the usual.."nothing" and send emojis with smiles or laughter. I know this man is crazy and is controlling her and manipulating her. I am fearing for her life. Where do I go from here?