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Now that I kicked my 18 year old daughter out, where do I go from here?
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 709216" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>If it were me I would call the police officer who handles domestic violence, too.</p><p></p><p>I would ask the DV program if you should go along with your daughter in meeting her half way with the guy. Like going to the restaurant, etc., as a means to encourage her in any way to come home, where she will be protected. I would NOT let him come over to the house. But that is me.</p><p></p><p>While they have confirmed it is domestic violence, you need to know what to do to get her out. That is why I would get counsel from the agency and police as to what should be your next steps.</p><p></p><p>It is encouraging that she is visiting every day. I think if it was me I might play along and go to the restaurant, if you think that it would encourage her to come home, but I would not allow him in my home. And certainly not allow him to stay over. But I think I would talk it over with the DV group and the police before I did anything.</p><p>This perplexes me. It is as if she is putting you in the middle. Setting you up. It is like a triangulation. She seems to playing out her conflict with you. On the one hand she is encouraging you to allow him into your house and life. On the other she is demonizing him as controlling. I might flat out ask her about this. But then I would be afraid. I think you need counseling. Can you see somebody at the domestic violence center?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 709216, member: 18958"] If it were me I would call the police officer who handles domestic violence, too. I would ask the DV program if you should go along with your daughter in meeting her half way with the guy. Like going to the restaurant, etc., as a means to encourage her in any way to come home, where she will be protected. I would NOT let him come over to the house. But that is me. While they have confirmed it is domestic violence, you need to know what to do to get her out. That is why I would get counsel from the agency and police as to what should be your next steps. It is encouraging that she is visiting every day. I think if it was me I might play along and go to the restaurant, if you think that it would encourage her to come home, but I would not allow him in my home. And certainly not allow him to stay over. But I think I would talk it over with the DV group and the police before I did anything. This perplexes me. It is as if she is putting you in the middle. Setting you up. It is like a triangulation. She seems to playing out her conflict with you. On the one hand she is encouraging you to allow him into your house and life. On the other she is demonizing him as controlling. I might flat out ask her about this. But then I would be afraid. I think you need counseling. Can you see somebody at the domestic violence center? [/QUOTE]
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