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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 684161" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Oh Soooootired it is just never ending. </p><p>With my two, I know already it is futile to talk with them. With my other children we can have discussions, but not my two. There is this automatic rejection of anything I say.</p><p>Reason......what is that? Normal........ what is that?</p><p>It is hard when there are grands involved. What can you do? </p><p>You already know that taking care of your grandson is not an option for you.</p><p> Even if you wanted to, you have no legal right. </p><p>It is rough to watch, believe me, I understand.</p><p>ST, are you seeing a therapist for you? This is so much to think about, to process, just going to see a counselor or a group to work through this face to face is helpful. I did. I needed to, because I was focusing everything on my grands and running my heart ragged with the weight of it all. </p><p>Then I realized, I had absolutely no control. </p><p>Even when CPS and authorities got involved, concentration was on keeping the family together.</p><p>There is absolutely nothing to be done.</p><p> This. Let it go. Right now, your daughter is<em> talking </em>about something. Let it go, don't mention it, if it happens, it happens. Often, d cs mention things to get us spinning. It is a game. Do not play the game.</p><p>Day by day.</p><p>Slow way down and take it day by day.</p><p>I am sorry, I know it is hard.</p><p>Take some deep breaths and take time for YOU.</p><p>(((HUGS)))</p><p>leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 684161, member: 19522"] Oh Soooootired it is just never ending. With my two, I know already it is futile to talk with them. With my other children we can have discussions, but not my two. There is this automatic rejection of anything I say. Reason......what is that? Normal........ what is that? It is hard when there are grands involved. What can you do? You already know that taking care of your grandson is not an option for you. Even if you wanted to, you have no legal right. It is rough to watch, believe me, I understand. ST, are you seeing a therapist for you? This is so much to think about, to process, just going to see a counselor or a group to work through this face to face is helpful. I did. I needed to, because I was focusing everything on my grands and running my heart ragged with the weight of it all. Then I realized, I had absolutely no control. Even when CPS and authorities got involved, concentration was on keeping the family together. There is absolutely nothing to be done. This. Let it go. Right now, your daughter is[I] talking [/I]about something. Let it go, don't mention it, if it happens, it happens. Often, d cs mention things to get us spinning. It is a game. Do not play the game. Day by day. Slow way down and take it day by day. I am sorry, I know it is hard. Take some deep breaths and take time for YOU. (((HUGS))) leafy [/QUOTE]
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