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(NPD) Adult Son and (NPD) Narcissitic Mother Living Together Father Wants Son Out
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 714039" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>If it were that easy to get rid of somebody, your lawyer would be making progress. You would not be asking here. And you would have received answers here that made you feel good. We are supportive when we can be.</p><p></p><p>The assets are decided in court and in a community state, they are 50/50. Dad and Mom. Not you and brother. And this happens during divorce. Right now, what is his is hers. If he doesnt like it, he can divorce her and he will get 50% of the assets. So will she. He may even have to pay her marital support.</p><p></p><p>You are very young and still believe life should be based on what you see is fair. Court is not about giving the assets to the person you think deserves it. Court is about law.</p><p></p><p>For your own sake, keep enjoying your life and let go of this. It is not fixable in the way you want it to be. Nobody is going to throw your mom and brother out of their home. Even if you dont like the situation. Dad can shake things up by going through a divorce, but he is not going to walk away with everything. He may not get the house. This is completely between Dad and Mom. Everything Dad owns, mom does too. It is out of your hands. If they dont agree amicably on what to do, a Judge will do so. Or nothing will happen at all.</p><p></p><p>Many parents here wish to make a grown child leave (mostly Dad or Stepdad) and Mom wont do it. Either Dad/StepDad leaves for good or they all co-exist. This is not easy to fix. To fix it both parents wouldo have to evict the grown child. I dont think there is any way to get Mom out of her own home.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 714039, member: 1550"] If it were that easy to get rid of somebody, your lawyer would be making progress. You would not be asking here. And you would have received answers here that made you feel good. We are supportive when we can be. The assets are decided in court and in a community state, they are 50/50. Dad and Mom. Not you and brother. And this happens during divorce. Right now, what is his is hers. If he doesnt like it, he can divorce her and he will get 50% of the assets. So will she. He may even have to pay her marital support. You are very young and still believe life should be based on what you see is fair. Court is not about giving the assets to the person you think deserves it. Court is about law. For your own sake, keep enjoying your life and let go of this. It is not fixable in the way you want it to be. Nobody is going to throw your mom and brother out of their home. Even if you dont like the situation. Dad can shake things up by going through a divorce, but he is not going to walk away with everything. He may not get the house. This is completely between Dad and Mom. Everything Dad owns, mom does too. It is out of your hands. If they dont agree amicably on what to do, a Judge will do so. Or nothing will happen at all. Many parents here wish to make a grown child leave (mostly Dad or Stepdad) and Mom wont do it. Either Dad/StepDad leaves for good or they all co-exist. This is not easy to fix. To fix it both parents wouldo have to evict the grown child. I dont think there is any way to get Mom out of her own home. [/QUOTE]
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