I just found out today that my son has ODD. It makes sense to me that he does have. We are starting therapy in a week. There is however, a damaged relationship w. my son going through this w. him for years now...I am not shocked and shocked all over. I just was wondering if others feel this way and I am hopeful that there is hope. He is 16 not six. I only have a short time w. him till he is 18. I don't know.