hello, my name is joana i'm 43, married with 2 children. my difficult child is 14 amd my daughter is 16. my difficult child has always been a problem. it all started in kindergarten where the teacher complaind constantly he was always on the go and did not do as told. at home we was always ok, didn't seem to be a problem but as time went by he was evaluated and labeled adhd. iep in place. he loves video games, computers and to read. however lately its all about the multi player games in the computer. he doesn't study and never wants to go out to eat. he eats all the time and not good food, junk food thats it. doesn't like anthing else. Getting new clothes is a problem too. has no real friends other than those he plays with on the computers. i don't know what to do anymore. its always a fight to get him to do school work or anything else. he tries to find loopholes in anything you say. and uses elerything against you. he's lying more and more. blames others for his mistakes. etc, he is driving me to drink. i have tried medications but he wont take them cause he says he can't swollow pills, tried sprinkeled on food but he wont take it either. psychologist, tried, no improvements. i'm overwelmed.