She's still mouthy, and hit her sister without provacation again. she's in the computer chair and told to get up and take a shower since it is going on past their bedtime. Whenever I tell her to get off the computer and let Abry on she at first yells something like "I aaaammmm!" and then doesn't. I say now. She doesn't move. I say get in the shower. She doesn't move until i grounded her from the computer for 4 days. I turn my back, Voila, Abry gets hit somehow. Of course difficult child says, " I didnt hit her" When I give difficult child the punishment, she says over and over, "I don't CARE!!!!" 30 minutes later and 10 times more of saying get in the shower, she does. Things she does in between the first time I told her and when she actually does it: 1) looks for her clothes 2) looks for a towel 3) argues with sister 4) eats a bowl of jello 5) eats a cupcake 6) watches her sister's progress on the internet 7) watches a bit of t.v. "Get in the shower, NOW!" "I aaaaaammmm! Leave me alone! Godddddd!"