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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 752432" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>I still think he needs to be out of the house. I do agree that as long as he is there he needs severe consequences but his genetic history matters. It is part of how he is and why he is, just like my daughter.</p><p></p><p>My daughter was raised in a loving home free of bad conflict or yelling. We adopted her and raised all our kids in the same environment She was the only adopted child. She alone is a huge problem. I am convinced a lot of her behavior is genetic. She is as confrontational and rebellious as the rest of us are calm and thoughtful. She has no love of rules or laws. She has no respect for anybody really.</p><p></p><p>I would plan for your son to leave at 18 if he still threatens you. Period. Help him pay rent if you must. We bought our daughter a home. We did not want her living with us. She threatened us, herself and broke our treasures. She stole. She lied. She shoved me. I had two younger kids to keep safe. If he leaves you can still try to help him if he lets you. My daughter refuses help and always did. Pot is her solution.</p><p></p><p>In the end it is up to you and your husband whether to house him or not. This IS domestic abuse. And it is hard when your child is the abuser.</p><p></p><p>God bless you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 752432, member: 23706"] I still think he needs to be out of the house. I do agree that as long as he is there he needs severe consequences but his genetic history matters. It is part of how he is and why he is, just like my daughter. My daughter was raised in a loving home free of bad conflict or yelling. We adopted her and raised all our kids in the same environment She was the only adopted child. She alone is a huge problem. I am convinced a lot of her behavior is genetic. She is as confrontational and rebellious as the rest of us are calm and thoughtful. She has no love of rules or laws. She has no respect for anybody really. I would plan for your son to leave at 18 if he still threatens you. Period. Help him pay rent if you must. We bought our daughter a home. We did not want her living with us. She threatened us, herself and broke our treasures. She stole. She lied. She shoved me. I had two younger kids to keep safe. If he leaves you can still try to help him if he lets you. My daughter refuses help and always did. Pot is her solution. In the end it is up to you and your husband whether to house him or not. This IS domestic abuse. And it is hard when your child is the abuser. God bless you. [/QUOTE]
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