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ODD son refuses treatment
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<blockquote data-quote="JayPee" data-source="post: 752445" data-attributes="member: 23405"><p>Tired,</p><p></p><p>You are fighting two battles here. It would be bad enough if it was just your son's issues but not having the support of your spouse and his belief in you that you have done all you can but now need other direction, other guidance and support is not good. To me your safety seems paramount. Doesn't he a consider if something were to happen to you that he'll look even more negligent for knowing what his son was capable of but never doing anything about it?</p><p></p><p>In my opinion, you will not be able to implement a plan if he is not on board. Meaning all your time and energy to find the right path for your son will be wasted if your husband doesn't agree with you.</p><p></p><p> If it were me, however, I would still work on finding solutions and then at least present your plan of what you want to do for your son and for the betterment and welfare of yourself and family.</p><p></p><p>When we take baby steps that's when we are able to navigate and see if the decisions and plans we're making are going in the right direction and we are then also able to see where some other changes need to be made. Sometimes the full answer is not revealed to us all at once but it opens up to us as we move forward trusting in God and leaning on his power and strength.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JayPee, post: 752445, member: 23405"] Tired, You are fighting two battles here. It would be bad enough if it was just your son's issues but not having the support of your spouse and his belief in you that you have done all you can but now need other direction, other guidance and support is not good. To me your safety seems paramount. Doesn't he a consider if something were to happen to you that he'll look even more negligent for knowing what his son was capable of but never doing anything about it? In my opinion, you will not be able to implement a plan if he is not on board. Meaning all your time and energy to find the right path for your son will be wasted if your husband doesn't agree with you. If it were me, however, I would still work on finding solutions and then at least present your plan of what you want to do for your son and for the betterment and welfare of yourself and family. When we take baby steps that's when we are able to navigate and see if the decisions and plans we're making are going in the right direction and we are then also able to see where some other changes need to be made. Sometimes the full answer is not revealed to us all at once but it opens up to us as we move forward trusting in God and leaning on his power and strength. [/QUOTE]
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