went downstairs and saw the mail on the table. The top letter is a lovely request from the PO wanting a meeting right after xmas, first week school is back in session. This is in response to difficult child's arrest after her shoving/biting incident before Tgiving. So now she's going to miss another day of school for this ****. Short story: difficult child got caught by the substitute passing notes in class. She ran out of the room (written in IEP, is ok) and the sub went after her and gave her the choice of going back to class or notifying the office of this offense. When difficult child didn't answer, teacher went back into room toward phone. difficult child aparantly either shoved/pushed teacher and they both ended up on the ground. Then after teacher restrained her, difficult child bit. Teacher signs complaint, and difficult child is handcuffed and fingerprinted. Can anyone tell me what to expect at this meeting? Should I be bringing anything? papers? IEP's? a lawyer???