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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 651199" data-attributes="member: 18100"><p>WipedOut- Im glad hes better at school, but so sorry hes still this way at home! </p><p></p><p>mjhawks- hope you didnt mind me using you as a motivator to speak up! It just hurts that my son said this because I know Im a good mom, its frustrating too!</p><p></p><p>2much2recover- yes! I agree with you! I mean, if they couldnt hold it in at all, id start thinking different. My son loves to control things.</p><p></p><p>SecondTimeAround- They sure do have their own view of the world, it still amazes me!</p><p></p><p>Thanks everyone- it sure is frustrating to and hurtful for them to be this way with us and yet, others just have no way to understand they are not like their kids... so add that to the package! I really dont want to start a new thread so hopefully someone can answer me here. How/ what do I do for punishment when he is acting up? Time outs, go to his room, hahahahah nope not my kid. Now, I have taken away electronics and even outside time, he loves his outside time. But, it really is punishing us to keep him in and he builds up more and more being in.. I know I asked this in an old thread but now that hes older, I wanted to ask again. </p><p></p><p>I have said I would take away his whole room of stuff, and most part did, but that didnt work out- maybe try that again? But everything this time? </p><p></p><p>A friend suggested one of those boxing things that he could punch and "train him" to punch that! He used to have the little plastic kids ones from toys r us, should I get the bag, will it help any? I think it will- I don't know! Ill ask the psychiatric at our appointment too. </p><p></p><p>another friend said I need to keep up with punishments- true. But she said to handle him Im his mom, spank him etc if he starts that Im the mom and need him under control and hes not like what we say he just needs discipline .. But spanking only makes him more violent and it doesnt phase him- hes says "hitting his fine then!!!!!!" Gets more violent.. </p><p></p><p>Ok.. spring break is here and hes playing with his friends so Im hoping this helps wear him out!!!!! Got lots more new activities/therapy classes coming soon so hopefully he will be so tired- he wont even remember to be bad !!!! Oh, also, Im looking at big brother programs and getting on the list if the psychiatric thinks its a good idea, I dont need these poor kids/ older adults trying to handle my son if he has a urge to be mad! Those poor big brothers!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 651199, member: 18100"] WipedOut- Im glad hes better at school, but so sorry hes still this way at home! mjhawks- hope you didnt mind me using you as a motivator to speak up! It just hurts that my son said this because I know Im a good mom, its frustrating too! 2much2recover- yes! I agree with you! I mean, if they couldnt hold it in at all, id start thinking different. My son loves to control things. SecondTimeAround- They sure do have their own view of the world, it still amazes me! Thanks everyone- it sure is frustrating to and hurtful for them to be this way with us and yet, others just have no way to understand they are not like their kids... so add that to the package! I really dont want to start a new thread so hopefully someone can answer me here. How/ what do I do for punishment when he is acting up? Time outs, go to his room, hahahahah nope not my kid. Now, I have taken away electronics and even outside time, he loves his outside time. But, it really is punishing us to keep him in and he builds up more and more being in.. I know I asked this in an old thread but now that hes older, I wanted to ask again. I have said I would take away his whole room of stuff, and most part did, but that didnt work out- maybe try that again? But everything this time? A friend suggested one of those boxing things that he could punch and "train him" to punch that! He used to have the little plastic kids ones from toys r us, should I get the bag, will it help any? I think it will- I don't know! Ill ask the psychiatric at our appointment too. another friend said I need to keep up with punishments- true. But she said to handle him Im his mom, spank him etc if he starts that Im the mom and need him under control and hes not like what we say he just needs discipline .. But spanking only makes him more violent and it doesnt phase him- hes says "hitting his fine then!!!!!!" Gets more violent.. Ok.. spring break is here and hes playing with his friends so Im hoping this helps wear him out!!!!! Got lots more new activities/therapy classes coming soon so hopefully he will be so tired- he wont even remember to be bad !!!! Oh, also, Im looking at big brother programs and getting on the list if the psychiatric thinks its a good idea, I dont need these poor kids/ older adults trying to handle my son if he has a urge to be mad! Those poor big brothers! [/QUOTE]
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