I know you have mentioned that Q-Boy cusses at you. How do you respond to him? Carson has (in the last 2 month or so) started saying ugly words at school. He directed most of his words at his teachers. But tonight, for the first time, he called ME a bad name. A *ucker. I felt so angry. How dare he call me that! I washed his mouth out with baking soda and sent him to bed an hour ago. And he wanted to immeadiatley hang all over me, love me and say he was sorry. I told him that my feelings were hurt to bad to listen to his apology right now. How should I have handled it? How do YOU handle it? I don't feel I can ignore it. He was in the Principals office today for calling the aide a "jerk". My first response was shocked anger. And I know that isn't right. Help me?