I liked this guy I met for lunch. I've only been chatting with him about a week though so it's not like we are in love or anything. The big doubt I have about whether or not he's married lies in this: According to him, he's divorced and has been for about 8 years, he works at a place about 20 miles from me (I believe what he's told me about his work), he lives about a 1-hour drive away and he has been commuting about 6 mos but plans to move when he figures out what to do with his house there, his kids are grown but his youngest, an 18yo daughter, lives with him along with her baby son. He has to stay home some evenings in order to babysit his grandson while the daughter is at work. He says she plans to move out this summer. Well, it could also be HIS baby with a WIFE and that's why he has to be home most evenings, right? Or even if it is his dua''s baby, how can I determine if he's still not living with a wife? He seems very honest so in one I'd really like to just tell him that I need this doubt cleared up in a tactful and polite way or something in order to be honest with him. But that doesn't seem quite right either. Suggestions?