One of my clients, who has a three year old, who is being evaluated (parent has 5 kids -----> 3 in SpEd 2 being evaluation). Yesterday, she dressed her a in a very nice dress for Valentine's Day Party. (by the way - WE are having massive trouble with this school three of her five kids go to this school! In fact a "School Attorney has been invited to attend and ARD this week for her 6 yr old - to many details to go into) Anyway The SD 1. Did not notify her to come and pick the child up and change her clothes. 2. The teacher undressed her ( by word of the 3yr old) and put her in some (no offense intended but they looked like hobo clothes). 3. The mom was at work couldn't attend the party, the Gma went but she speaks broken English. 4. The Child was devastated I heard her crying on the phone, while the mom asked who undressed her and I had MOM take pics in the clothes they put on her. 5. NO NOTE was sent home as to explain the situation. 6. The mom phoned the nurse and she stated she had not seen the 3yr old ALL day, so she had no knowledge of the situation. The mother is BLOWING FIRE OUT HER EARS still at 12;30 last night! My biggest issue is the undressing of a three year old without parental consent or notification! OH YEA,by the way, she did make it to the 1st grader's party where their were little girls just as dressed up as hers was! WHAT DO YA'LL SAY AND WHAT WOULD YOU SUGGEST?