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OMG, his plan is to return here...
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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 657459" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>First a BIG HUG for you!!</p><p></p><p></p><p>Ok, this is a real possibility, he may find his way back to IL. It has not happened yet. Try and stay in the present. It's good to have a plan and it appears that you do, you will not allow him into your home. That being said don't allow fear to consume you. All we have control of is the present moment we are in.</p><p>My son is also in CO and I'm in IL. He has made notions of coming here in the fall. I have played out the scenario of him showing up on my door step and what would I do. If I were home alone, I would not open the door. If my husband were home we would go out through the garage and talk to him but we would not invite him into our house. Of course he has no job and I have not heard from him in 2 months. I have a plan if and when he shows up. Other than that, I stay in the present and live MY life.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Cedar has given some excellent advice here. It really does help to be prepared with what you would say. The main thing again, do not let your fear consume you.</p><p></p><p>Do not allow your son to hold your emotions hostage. YOU are stronger than that. YOU deserve to have peace in your life.</p><p></p><p>I am so glad you are here with us. We are here for you.</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/group-hug.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":group-hug:" title="group hug :group-hug:" data-shortname=":group-hug:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 657459, member: 18516"] First a BIG HUG for you!! Ok, this is a real possibility, he may find his way back to IL. It has not happened yet. Try and stay in the present. It's good to have a plan and it appears that you do, you will not allow him into your home. That being said don't allow fear to consume you. All we have control of is the present moment we are in. My son is also in CO and I'm in IL. He has made notions of coming here in the fall. I have played out the scenario of him showing up on my door step and what would I do. If I were home alone, I would not open the door. If my husband were home we would go out through the garage and talk to him but we would not invite him into our house. Of course he has no job and I have not heard from him in 2 months. I have a plan if and when he shows up. Other than that, I stay in the present and live MY life. Cedar has given some excellent advice here. It really does help to be prepared with what you would say. The main thing again, do not let your fear consume you. Do not allow your son to hold your emotions hostage. YOU are stronger than that. YOU deserve to have peace in your life. I am so glad you are here with us. We are here for you. :group-hug: [/QUOTE]
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