Well, we haven't been given the 'official results' of the investigation. But the nurse had to get my permission to take Kanga for a full gyn exam because it wasn't just oral... it sounds like it was actual intercourse. Course, the exam will be 5 days after the 'act' so I'm not sure what they will be able to find. They are also going to test for STDs. How th H E double hockey sticks does a kid in an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) get the opportunity of time and space to accomplish that? ESPECIALLY WHEN I WARNED THEM THAT SHE WOULD BE SEEKING OPPORTUNITIES TO DO THINGS LIKE THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Each time I talk to a staff person they seem to be waiting for me to explode. Partly I am still in shock and partly I want to wait for the results of the complete investigation before I respond. Certainly screaming at them won't unring this bell and she is so determined to be a **** that when they tighten her supervision she will either just do it in front of staff or she'll run. Short of putting her in a locked Residential Treatment Center (RTC), we cannot keep her safe from herself. When we had her in the all girls Residential Treatment Center (RTC), she just did it with a girl instead. She is so delusional - she told the investigator that they did not have sex but then described what they did -- and it was sex. She has had sex ed over and over and over because she refuses to grasp the basics. She lives in her own little world and heaven help us if we try to point out the consequences (STDs, pregnancy, ruined reputation, etc) because either she is happy about them or refuses to admit that the consequence exists for her. She has totally rejected our family and our family values. Right now, I cannot stand being her mom. I am ashamed for her to have our name.