Hi, I need advice or at least read a "It's not your problem, Mom, let it go"..... We are estranged from difficult child son. One of the rules before we kicked him out was no body piercings or tatoos. Since he has left, he has gotten tatoo'ed and his face is full of piercings! Okay...not my problem. However, today difficult child daughter brought over some pictures; two of them I wasn't meant to see. What are they of? Our difficult child son has cut his tonque in half to give it a "snake look". I'm ready to puke, to say the least. What would possess someone to do that? I don't get it. I maintained my composure while daughter was here, but since she left, I'm crying and absolutely sick to my stomach. And then he wonders why nobody will hire him, except dead-end jobs..... Please tell me what he did is none of my business.