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Once again, bio Dad derails difficult child
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<blockquote data-quote="AllStressedOut" data-source="post: 56952" data-attributes="member: 3837"><p>Can I just say, I know EXACTLY how you feel. Not with my ex, but with my husbands ex. She is exactly this way with the boys. And this is why we finally went for termination of rights. We were fortunate to have an attorney who worked with us for 2 years now. A judge that understood the pain she caused and an Ad Litem attorney who saw it as well.</p><p></p><p>Since we have had to deal with this with the boys, we have done our absolute best to explain all of this was because of choices their mother made. It wasn't because of them and it wasn't because of us or the judges and attorneys. I think they get it, but they aren't teens yet, so who knows. </p><p></p><p>I understand how angry you are, I read your post and it brought back those same feelings in me. I hated her for what she did to the boys and I still hate her for it. She does get in trouble with the law and as soon as I discover it, I write that counties DA and tell them my story and my sons story. I beg them to lock her away and keep her away from my boys.</p><p></p><p>I'm so sorry Mat is having to deal with it all at his age. I hope and pray to God that my boys are done with her by then. It is one thing for them to choose to have her back in their lives once they turn 18, but I want them to have time to heal from all the pain she has caused. I want them to be prepared to deal with her and all she dishes out.</p><p></p><p>If you want a recommendation for an attorney, I'd be happy to recommend mine. She is in Frisco. I just love her and she has done so much for us as a family.</p><p></p><p>I hope you find a way for Mat to heal and a way to make him understand it isn't your fault. If I thought I could help by telling him our story, I would in a heartbeat. Most teens won't listen to strangers though.</p><p></p><p>You and Mat are in my thoughts!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AllStressedOut, post: 56952, member: 3837"] Can I just say, I know EXACTLY how you feel. Not with my ex, but with my husbands ex. She is exactly this way with the boys. And this is why we finally went for termination of rights. We were fortunate to have an attorney who worked with us for 2 years now. A judge that understood the pain she caused and an Ad Litem attorney who saw it as well. Since we have had to deal with this with the boys, we have done our absolute best to explain all of this was because of choices their mother made. It wasn't because of them and it wasn't because of us or the judges and attorneys. I think they get it, but they aren't teens yet, so who knows. I understand how angry you are, I read your post and it brought back those same feelings in me. I hated her for what she did to the boys and I still hate her for it. She does get in trouble with the law and as soon as I discover it, I write that counties DA and tell them my story and my sons story. I beg them to lock her away and keep her away from my boys. I'm so sorry Mat is having to deal with it all at his age. I hope and pray to God that my boys are done with her by then. It is one thing for them to choose to have her back in their lives once they turn 18, but I want them to have time to heal from all the pain she has caused. I want them to be prepared to deal with her and all she dishes out. If you want a recommendation for an attorney, I'd be happy to recommend mine. She is in Frisco. I just love her and she has done so much for us as a family. I hope you find a way for Mat to heal and a way to make him understand it isn't your fault. If I thought I could help by telling him our story, I would in a heartbeat. Most teens won't listen to strangers though. You and Mat are in my thoughts! [/QUOTE]
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