When you put your difficult child out of the house~ where do they go? Our difficult child (now 20 yo, I couldnt figure out how to edit signature) has just worn down his welcome at his grand parents. They want him out. After two years they understand why we had him go, but because of the soft landing, nothing has changed. We are getting an enormous amount of pressue to let him back into our house and have a meeting set with difficult child and Grands to discuss. husband & I are on the same page- but we dont think that it will work for him to live with us again. difficult child lives in a grey area of life- he is not bad enough to get services, but is impossible to live/interact with. He has a job, but it does not pay enough to survive. Not to mention that his hard earned cash is only for his entertainment and he wont pay for food, housing, clothes etc. We asked his PO about services and she said that is not their department to help for refer. Anyway my question is ~where does a difficult child go when his family wont take him nor will his friends for any length of time.